Askmen dating a girl with a boyfriend

It's no indicator of social skills or "desirability", it's just a consequence of the circumstances.

A girl I'm in a relationship with more or less had no friends when I first met her.

I'm nervous a dude would drop me as a "loser" if he found out while we were dating so I've been serial dating as of late. If clinginess is just one person wanting the other to fulfill more of their social needs then the other I feel like anyone with no friends would inherently be clingy compared to someone with friends.

Honestly, I'm just content not being as social as other people I suppose? That's actually my ideal situation, finding a guy I vibe with who is willing to introduce me to his social circle. My friends like her a lot and my guy friends’ wives/GFs like her a lot, too.

We’re not here to tell you when and when not to pursue a girl with a boyfriend, only to consider whether there’s a good reason.

I see in her an amazing kindness, intelligence, humor, generosity, and she is just an absolutely beautiful person inside and out.

Her not having many friends when we met didn't make me think she was a "loser".

What’s more, people’s feelings are highly unpredictable immediately following a breakup.

So while she might be interested now, or six weeks from now, she could easily change her mind.

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