Dating an uncool guy
I would, however, wait for him to set up the next date. If some chick puts me on the spot about about not showing her more attention then I know it is time to hit the "eject" button.And, also, maybe dial back on the texting/communication that you initiate. You could ghost him, but if he's a seasoned dater, ghosting will simply indicate to him that you're no longer interested/met someone else and he'll never follow up. That way you can find out what his true motives are. The fact is, this op has a predetermined set of expectations that she wants to impose on this guy.I really like him & would like to see him more than once a week.And really, I would like him to WANT to see me more than once a week, or give the impression that he wants to see me at all lol.
if that's too hard, make yourself a little less available and put some space between your dates.He then got irritated and said that it was silly to plan dates in advance, because he's a passive guy, blah blah (what bullshit)The current one is, like yours, a bad texter but has asked me out twice.Between dates he's also kept me wondering if he's still interested as he almost never texts. I'll give you a piece of advice on dating a passive guy.when we do, he's very friendly but never sustains a text conversation. Let's say you guys get serious and have a real relationship together.Would you want to be the date/ event planner for the rest of your relationship? But from what I'm reading, he's just happy to go out with an eager, interested girl.