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He didn’t have a photo posted but he would forward me recent pictures if I would send him my email address. You feel uncomfortable communicating with a strange man outside a secure website.

“You made me smile just looking at your picture and I would love to meet you,” he said. A week later I received a second message from Tee Up4Us, which read: “Hi, Jim is married. You’re right to trust instincts because the quicker an online man can garner personal information about you, the easier it is to seduce and hoodwink you.

They can be this way because they only want a fling and they don’t intend to leave their wives.

There are distinct warning signs that an online man may be married (or have a girlfriend).

He emails and texts and even calls you regularly for a month or more, but he never makes plans to meet you in person or he cancels his trip at the last minute.

Don’t be afraid to call him out, tell him you’re not interested in a cyber relationship.

When in doubt, ask yourself these questions: Tip: Married men online are more likely to initiate the first contact on a dating site.

The burden of proof of whether a man is single or married is on you.

A single woman’s best defense is to be aware of the warning signs of men who are hiding a wife, children and family dog.

After a series of email correspondence with an online man, he sends you his phone number and he asks you to call him (he puts the monkey on your back because he says he doesn’t want to be forward).

You call him and he doesn’t answer and he waits a day or two to return your call, or he emails you saying, sorry he missed your call but he was in a meeting, he has bad reception on his phone, blah, blah, blah.

My most memorable correspondence came from an online man whose profile name was Tee Up4Us. I told her she was married to a pathological liar and consummate cheater and she should divorce him before he crushes her heart.

He emailed me telling me he had a successful career on Wall Street (a sweetener), he was divorced and he was in the process of moving to Middle Tennessee where I lived. And I told Tee Up4Us, “If you’re reading this you’re a lying, cheating scumbag.” If you’ve used a dating site even a little bit these fishy scenarios have happened to you: An online man emails you saying he is closing his dating site account but at the last minute he saw your profile, he was extremely attracted to you and he asks you to send him your email address so he can correspond with you.

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