Dont like dating women
I used to think this was dumbing myself down, or playing to the masses, being fake, or not true to myself.
But what I realized is there’s a reason they call this the dating “game” and if you want to play, you have to learn the rules.
You're too lazy to find someone else and you don't want to be alone.
Unfortunately, I have been through all kinds of online dates in the last two and a half years.
Truthfully, you know you shouldn't be dating anyone right now but oh god, human contact and oh god, so much crying. It's easier to focus on another person, even if that person blooooows, than to focus on what's really bothering you.
When you're feeling sad or depressed, you'll kind of put up with anything because you feel like garbage anyway. From school, from work, from life, from stress-eating. I'm not endorsing dating dickheads for funny stories, but have I done it on some level?
In fact, all of my female friends comment on what a great catch I am. Women reading this may feel bad for him, yet also want to him to know that it’s not BECAUSE he’s nice that he’s not attracting women. It’s because he constantly seeks the approval of others. It’s because he sacrifices his personal power to be conciliatory. What never occurs to some women is that: They’re being evaluated on far more than their most “impressive” traits. The flip side of being entrepreneurial is being a workaholic.
These are common attributes of nice guys, yet nice guys think that women don’t like nice guys BECAUSE they’re nice. These traits sometimes come with a significant downside that is painful to acknowledge. The flip side of being charismatic is being self-centered.