Insecurity and dating
While many things help tame anxiety, it can always rear its ugly head and sometimes cause me to say things in a panicked and anxious state of mind.At the end of the day, the right person for me will be someone who can accept and handle my flaws.
We know this because of a new study co-authored by Claudia Brumbaugh, a young psychology professor at Queens College.
I have those excited moments, too, but they’re usually accompanied by nervous shaking and fear of the unknown.
Uncertainty is the hardest part of the battle, so welcoming a new person into my life in a romantic way is pretty much the most terrifying thing ever.
I would just once like to put my mascara on without poking myself in the eye from unsteady hands. No matter how much I try and trust the present, I fear it because of my past relationships that failed.
Fear of the unknown causes you to play multiple possible scenarios in your head of what could happen in the future so you can try to control it by being prepared for it. I tend to overanalyze every word and action of my partner’s.